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Kindness

Every line here makes the same unlikely claim: that the return on kindness is wildly out of proportion to what it costs. They differ only on why.

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The most-shared kindness quote is misattributed

“Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle” is usually printed under the name of Plato, and sometimes Philo of Alexandria. It is neither. It belongs to Ian Maclaren — the pen name of the Scottish minister and author John Watson — writing in the 1890s. The line survives because it is good, not because of the name attached to it, which is a mildly embarrassing demonstration of its own point about judging on incomplete information.

Four hundred years, and one voice in three

The oldest line is Shakespeare's from 1598 and the newest is Maya Angelou's from 2008. Angelou has three of the nineteen, more than anyone else here, and it is worth saying why: she wrote about kindness repeatedly and quotably over five decades, which is rare. Most writers produce one sentence on the subject and move on. The concentration is not an editorial preference; it is what the record contains.

Who really said “everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle”?

Ian Maclaren, the pen name of the Scottish author and minister John Watson, in the 1890s. It is very often credited to Plato or to Philo of Alexandria, and neither of them wrote it.

What is the best short quote about kindness?

Aesop’s — “no act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted.” It comes from the fable of the lion and the mouse, and its real argument is that you cannot tell in advance which small act will turn out to matter.

Did Ian Maclaren say “Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle.”?

Widely credited to Plato or Philo of Alexandria. It is neither — it is the Scottish author Ian Maclaren, writing in the 1890s. It is filed here as attributed to Ian Maclaren, which means widely credited and not traced to a primary source.

Did Maya Angelou say “People will forget what you said and did, but they will never forget how y…”?

Angelou made the line famous, but a close version predates her: Carl W. Buehner, quoted in Richard Evans’ Quote Book (1971). It is filed here as attributed to Maya Angelou, which means widely credited and not traced to a primary source.

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philotimo

the Greek idea of a duty to behave well that no one is enforcing.

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