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The short answer
Close cousins. Breadcrumbing is the 'never fully engage but keep dangling' variant — a steady trickle. Paperclipping is the 'ghost, then resurface' variant — a total disappearance followed by a low-effort pop-up.
Side by side
| Aspect | Paperclipping | Breadcrumbing |
|---|---|---|
| Rhythm | Vanish, then reappear | Steady trickle |
| The gap | Total silence | Never quite gone |
| The reappearance | The defining move | Not the point |
| Goal | Keep you on standby | Keep you hooked |
Which one you meant
Readers who land here meaning Paperclipping rather than Breadcrumbing are usually searching for phrases like “an ex pops up randomly with no real intention”, “someone who disappeared keeps resurfacing to say hi then vanishing”, “the word for a person who reappears just to keep me interested”.
Which came first
Breadcrumbing. 1812 — The Brothers Grimm publish Hansel and Gretel in the first volume of Kinder- und Hausmärchen; the dating term is named for its trail of crumbs — one the birds eat, so it leads nowhere.
Where the confusion comes from
“Paperclipping is just another word for breadcrumbing.”
They overlap, but paperclipping specifically describes the reappearance after a total drop-off; breadcrumbing is ongoing sporadic teasing that never fully disappears.
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